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Why are people so disrespectful?
Ugh, it just ticks me off to know end when people just don't care and are ride to everyone. One of my dads friends son was over, and we (me, my friend, the guy, his sister, and my brothers) we were just talking. He started to get really loud (almost yelling) and I asked him to be quiet because we have neighbors. So, he looks around at my right neighbours houses and he was like "well, their light is on, and theirs is on..." I told I didn't care, that it was disrespectful and just simply common curtesy to be quiet. He told me he didn't care again, so I told him that he will never get anywhere in life because when you don't respect other people, the my dont respect you either.
Too harsh? Or was that a good thing to say? He was also being a complete ass the entire night to my ten year old brothers (he's a sophomore ((thinks he's all high and mighty cuz he's a whole year older, but he shorter than me, his voice is high pitch, and just a jerk anyway))) he was telling them innopropriate jokes.
So, was I out of line by saying that?
And do you hate disrespectful people too? (Ride, loud, non-caring)
how can i convince my dad that my depression is real and that i am not being lazy, "taking the easy route, pretending, etc.?
i have suffered from depression on and off from at least 2005 (possibly before). i have been on antidepressants since 1999 and anti-anxiety meds & sleeping medication since 2005 (off and on). i moved home about 9 months ago (because of a variety of traumatic experiences) and have been unemployed since. i have been seeing a psychologist and psychiatrist regularly and just recently started to feel better. my dad just freaked out on me and said that i was just pretending and being lazy because i have been social on occasion and more so recently. being social was (and still is a little bit) hard for me but i know it makes me feel better so i have been really pushing myself. my dad is an extremely smart man (an MD- does cancer research) but does not really believe a lot of psychology (calls it a "soft science"). we are at the point where i am not speaking with him, because he said some really awful things to me (that i am not making the world a better place, that i am not making a difference in anyone's lives- including my own, that i have been "playing him and my mom", that i have basically been manipulative and that i am a bad person). this has all caused a lot of drama within my family and i hate it. i have tried talking to him (losing battle- he is always right), sending him literature (doesn't buy it), having others talk to him, etc. i do not know what to do!
What can you do in 24 hours before the world ends?
1. Got Breakfast that’s already been cooked and done for us; all we did was sat down, prayed and ate the food.
2. Went back to the room – brushed and got ready for the day.
3. Posted on AMSDaily.net for ten minutes (the internet was very slow)
4. Went up for a ride to the furniture store (Huston and Company); drove past farms, stables, scenic views, etc.
5. Went up for a trolley ride at the Seashore Trolley Museum
6. Got ready for the beach
7. Walked half a mile to the beach with a wagon
8. Sat, ate, read, talked, kissed, touched, walked over the rocks and seaweeds, watched the boats go by, sang, whistled, listened to the ca-cawing of the seagulls, picked periwinkles,played with our daughter; hugged my daughter many times, breathed fresh air, smiled at strangers, glanced squished sand between my toes, thanked my husband for the day, splashed water among us – did all these at the beach!
9. Walked back to the room
10. Swam at the pool to ourselves
11. Showered and got ready for dinner
12. Drove to the Point; Cape Porpoise and watched the sunset
13. Ate dinner while watching the sunset and the dusk meet
14. Walked along the pier under moonlit
15. Watched our daughter sang and danced
16. Prayed as a family
17. Read a book
18. Started another post
19. Read Maine Home Magazine
20. Slept!