Why are people so disrespectful? Ugh, it just ticks me off to know end when people just don't care and are ride to everyone.  One of my dads friends son was over, and we (me, my friend, the guy, his sister, and my brothers) we were just talking. He started to get really loud (almost yelling) and I asked him to be quiet because we have neighbors. So, he looks around at my right neighbours houses and he was like "well, their light is on, and theirs is on..." I told I didn't care, that it was disrespectful and just simply common curtesy to be quiet. He told me he didn't care again, so I told him that he will never get anywhere in life because when you don't respect other people, the my dont respect you either.   Too harsh? Or was that a good thing to say? He was also being a complete ass the entire night to my ten year old brothers (he's a sophomore ((thinks he's all high and mighty cuz he's a whole year older, but he shorter than me, his voice is high pitch, and just a jerk anyway))) he was telling them innopropriate jokes.  So, was I out of line by saying that? And do you hate disrespectful people too? (Ride, loud, non-caring)

Why are people so disrespectful? Ugh, it just ticks me off to know end when people just don't care and are ride to everyone. One of my dads friends son was over, and we (me, my friend, the guy, his sister, and my brothers) we were just talking. He started to get really loud (almost yelling) and I asked him to be quiet because we have neighbors. So, he looks around at my right neighbours houses and he was like "well, their light is on, and theirs is on..." I told I didn't care, that it was disrespectful and just simply common curtesy to be quiet. He told me he didn't care again, so I told him that he will never get anywhere in life because when you don't respect other people, the my dont respect you either. Too harsh? Or was that a good thing to say? He was also being a complete ass the entire night to my ten year old brothers (he's a sophomore ((thinks he's all high and mighty cuz he's a whole year older, but he shorter than me, his voice is high pitch, and just a jerk anyway))) he was telling them innopropriate jokes. So, was I out of line by saying that? And do you hate disrespectful people too? (Ride, loud, non-caring)

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i_dont_know
people are disrespectful because people don’t respect them
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SoulOfTheWolves_Inactive
Some just want to prove a point but they choose the wrong way
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CrystalWings
We are living in the most screwed up generation of humanity.
Bmac99
True that
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on December 31, 2014
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on December 25, 2014
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EMOpanda
You weren't out of line. And people are butts because we're humans.
Bmac99
True
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on March 14, 2014
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on March 14, 2014
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Writerunner
IDK, maybe not brought up right?
Writerunner
Oh. Maybe it's just a stage he's going through
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on March 21, 2014
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Bmac99
I know his dad. His dad is awesome, and really courteous. And his mom is super sweet too.
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on March 14, 2014
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on December 17, 2013
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Greater_Dog
hating, jealous, or ignorance
Bmac99
True
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on August 30, 2013
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on August 29, 2013
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killedbythesketchbook
Well maybe they're jealous....sorry, I know a lot of people say that but it's true
Bmac99
Maybe...
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on August 24, 2013
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BasicCactus
Well, I might say that. It depends.
on August 24, 2013
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BasicCactus
Some people are just weird like that. you did the right thing. Although...I would never do that, cause I'm super shy. :">
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on August 28, 2013
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Bmac99
Normally I wouldn't have said anything. But he really struck a nerve O_o
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on August 24, 2013
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ChokolatLover
Yeah I don't like disrespectful people but I don't hate them. I mean maybe it's just because they were never taught to be respectful but if not then they're stupid. You weren't out of line, I think what you did was great! :)
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on August 24, 2013
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Bmac99
I didn't mean hate as in like "I wish they were dead" but as in strongly disliking them:) and yeah I hope someday he will grow out if his immaturity.
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on August 24, 2013
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ChokolatLover
Lets hope that your day's friend's son learns how to be respectful.
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on August 24, 2013
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Bmac99
*OMG RUDE NOT RIDE AUTOCORRECT NEEDS TO GET A DICTIONARY
ChokolatLover
Yeah it happens to me too :)
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