I have a big butt and big thights?!? Ok you're probably thinking, 'ugh , the same question asked by a typical teenager ' (I'm a girl ^.^) But no, My body is reaalllyy weird. ... The upper half of my body (my stomach and above) is thin, like I've been exercising to get a thin body but no, I haven't. Past my waist it starts to get fat.... my butt is huuuge! (Not like the huge you're thinking of right now) and my thighs are big because of that too - my butt Im seriously not sure why i have this huge butt because no one in my family has a huge butt... just to add in, im Indian and normally they have quite small or flat bottoms.... well im pretty sure of that.? Ok so when I go to school ( this happened quite alot in year 8+9 )*Notice, I'm in year 10 right now and im quite short/ near to the average height... I think ^.^* the girls (some of them just the rude ones) kept saying 'oh I like your bum,' 'Your bum is so big!' and you... get the point.... When I went to my friends house her mum saw my butt and she was like to her daughter in their language - I think it was a joke but it hurt my feelings - 'Did she get plastic surgery?' and then my friend told me what her mum said and im like 'Ohh hahahaha, ......' I need help and advice, please don't give me an answer like 'boys love big butts' I dont care about BOYS Ok? Anything else would be great :) - Thanks xxx

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RosenEliza
I have a big bum and thighs to, I am black and sometimes we have big bums and thighs. Its normal when you get taller your bum and thighs will thin out. Its apart of growing, this is how you grow: You go out <<<<>>>> then you get taller >>>><<<<! Get it? You go out you get a little bigger, you get taller you get thinner. At about 16 or 18 (if your lucky ever 20) you will finish growing.
Niceboy1
black? ew
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MEGS0316
she got chu there @Niceboy1 @GingerSnaps101
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on July 02, 2014
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RosenEliza
I am African-American, if you were just a little too stupid to figure that out yourself.
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on July 01, 2014
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on April 25, 2014
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Nightcat
Yeah you kinda stretch out
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on February 09, 2014
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on November 02, 2013
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CeceNel94
Women pay to have what you have. I'm in the same boat kinda just a little different. I'm 4'8" very short and I'm 100 pounds but my breast or huge. I get the same comments about my breast. I was always in embarrassed especially when I was really young I started getting breast when I was 7 years old. What I would do is just tell yourself that you're beautiful every day. It helps also embrace it. Enjoy all the looks and comments lol that means that you're different and unique. You See More
CeceNel94
I know how you feel it looks really weird to have huge breast and a skinny body but I learned to accept it. That's all you honestly can do.
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on September 17, 2013
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:-O Well thats true about the Nikki Minaj bit, but its just that I dont like it when people say I have a big butt... and also my breasts are SMALL .... They're growing I know but it looks really weird with small breasts and a big butt,,
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on September 17, 2013
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on September 17, 2013
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depressedbean69
It's just your body type girl
on February 18, 2016
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Rawr2002
I have one two, but small thighs

People say stuff like that to me, I just say "back off perv" or "pervey much"
on September 27, 2015
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gcris12
I feel you girl. My brother and sister and even my dad say I have a big but. I am skinny at the top as well. I am becoming really self conscious.
on September 26, 2015
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Moneyinnobank
Well, we know it won't lie
on August 11, 2014
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PoohRocks
That's not bad. cus i have a big chest and go on down a small belly go on down i have big thighs go on down i big butt to so its not weird at all.
on May 20, 2014
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MEGS0316
thats not bad dem haters jes jelous u r more bootlicious than them. u r beautiful and dont let anyone else tell u other wise.
on May 02, 2014
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mowen
I know I get what you mean because I can gaurentee my butt is probbably twice your size just wear maybe tighter pants and use your big booty to your advantage
on April 30, 2014
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Nightcat
You probably have a pear shape, loads of people I see are bottom heavy. It's not a bad thing, just cos you don't look like those supermodels in the magazines with perfect flat stomachs and perfect hourglass figures doesn't mean you're not beautiful.
on February 09, 2014
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Kirby
ummm, u can do some workouts for ur butt cuz i read that by doing some cardio or a workout for ur butt, it helps tone the butt making the butt seem smaller. u can check some workouts on google and maybe it'll help make ur butt smaller if u want it smaller. or, just simply leave it how it is. doing workouts r so painful unless u do it daily!
Kirby
hope it helps for u :)
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on September 18, 2013
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Im determined to do it daily if it'll help my butt and thighs go smaller :)
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on September 17, 2013
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