
is it bad if u r 11 and yr going out with a 14 year old guy?? so my best friend lesly she has a brother that is 14 lesly stared to talk about him and in my mine he looked cute so lesly gave me her phone number so i can call her so i called her wen i got home and she told me if i wanet to text with alejandro leslys brother i was shy to text with him so i said no thank u so me and lesly wr texting and i had to go so i said bye and she said bye so it was like 9;00 pm and i was texting lesly but this time i prtended i was my cousin so me or my couisain said that if he liked janet thats me !!!!!!!!!!! and he said that i had a cute voice so that yhea he liked me so then my cousain said that if he waned to out with me and he said yes so then my cousain me! told alejandro to bring or send a p to sand a picture of him and he said okkkk omg wen i saw him in the ictures he is 100 % cute or hot so is it BAD TO GO OUT WITH A GUY THAT IS 14 AND U R 11!
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on July 16, 2018
on November 27, 2016
on March 31, 2016
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That's not dating. That's babysitting.

on July 06, 2013

My parents went trough high school together, spent five years dating, married, two years later had me. They are the same age. At 11( my age ) no body should be dating.
on April 07, 2013

no its not ok so it's 4 years but ask your parents how far are they away from each other my parents are 5 years apart and you say 11 to 14 is bad
on April 07, 2013
on March 29, 2013
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11 isn't a good age to date
Nor 14
They shouldn't be dating, in my opinion. They should wait until they're both a bit older.
Nor 14
They shouldn't be dating, in my opinion. They should wait until they're both a bit older.
on November 21, 2015
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You guys realize that if Lesley was 11 at the time, she is now thirteen or fourteen.
on November 17, 2015
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well, I'm 11 and I wouldn't even think about going on a date with a boy, never mind going out with a 14 year old!

it is ok to go but there would be future problems u may be not mature enough for him and it would be hard to adjust and u guys are having attraction and it will wear of soon
on June 29, 2017
on December 17, 2012
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Please-
Check your spelling and grammar. Are you seriously too lazy to type?
Check your spelling and grammar. Are you seriously too lazy to type?
on June 04, 2015
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I cant even answer this question because there is literally no grammar and I cant even understand what you are saying.
on September 12, 2015
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If a couple is more than two years apart then they shouldn't go out. If they're kids
on March 15, 2015
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I am 10 turning 11 soon and I agree with Kearahodge01 I would never I agree completely with kearahodge01
on January 27, 2013
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Relationships are emotionally exhausting, trust me. An eleven year old shouldn't have to go through all that, I feel like you need to be a tad older and more mature.
on June 20, 2018
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11 years old probably shouldn't date, maybe until after college, cause that's when relationships really flower.
on November 18, 2015
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It is love. Love is love, no matter what gender, race, or age :3

on June 29, 2017
on May 24, 2015
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on October 12, 2012
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... i don't think it is bad. If you know him more than just his picture and his sister. Other than that, I think you should go on a few dates first, like double dates, then see if you even get along. THEN see if he is boyfriend material :) Good Luck!! Especially with that age gap
on October 09, 2012
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as a kid, you should only date within your grade, and then highschool allows for more fluidity but 18 year olds shouldnt go out with 14 / 15 year olds. thats how it is
on February 08, 2021
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I'm 14 (turning 15 april) and I'm dating a 12 year old so...
I don't know, do what feels right
I don't know, do what feels right

you sound like youre really unpopular with the people youre expected to socialize with

Nope. Not really. My friends actually support our relationship @yiiffart2
To me age doesn't matter, unless its a lot older or younger then me. Then it gets weird. But this feels completely natural, and I am very lucky to have my Hyun
To me age doesn't matter, unless its a lot older or younger then me. Then it gets weird. But this feels completely natural, and I am very lucky to have my Hyun
on February 08, 2021
on February 08, 2021
on January 28, 2021
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if he's 14 and goes on a date with an 11-year old that's predatory and definitely not okay.
on January 25, 2021
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Maybe wait until you are middle school
But wow
All the couples I have seen are like 5 years apart
My dad is 10 years older than my mom
But wow
All the couples I have seen are like 5 years apart
My dad is 10 years older than my mom

My mom and dad are 14 years apart TwT
And where never dating and my mom thought she wouldn't get pregnant soooooooo yeah I technically a mistake
And where never dating and my mom thought she wouldn't get pregnant soooooooo yeah I technically a mistake
on October 31, 2021
on July 17, 2018
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and also if your pretending your your cousin and saying that your COUSIN went out with YOU then like thats weird cause like cousins arent supposed to go out with eachother cause they are related and thats weird
on July 16, 2018
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do you know anything about him besides he is hot btw?
cause like how do you know he is a good person?
cause like how do you know he is a good person?
on July 16, 2018
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if ur 11 then it's very bad because ur not a teen yet and he is a 14 yr old!!!!!! i'm so disgusted.... if u go out with him. :-&:-O:-&:-&|-)X-(:-O:-O
on November 06, 2017