Please Please! Help (don't ignore this plz) My cat toasha is 4 or 5 years old now and we consider her a elder cat and she's very shy and hates playing and ever since we got jack he always pounces on toasha play fighting with her so since he can't take a hint toasha literally attacks him she doesn't use claws because she does realize he's just a kitten but she bites him and jack always try's to claw her face and neck and I'm afraid one of them will eventually get very hurt. Please help!

Please Please! Help (don't ignore this plz) My cat toasha is 4 or 5 years old now and we consider her a elder cat and she's very shy and hates playing and ever since we got jack he always pounces on toasha play fighting with her so since he can't take a hint toasha literally attacks him she doesn't use claws because she does realize he's just a kitten but she bites him and jack always try's to claw her face and neck and I'm afraid one of them will eventually get very hurt. Please help!

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Fandom_Trash
So try trimming the claws on bouth cats regulay and if you don't have jack fixed try that because he mightbe fighting for taratory good luck and sorry for you
on April 15, 2015
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The_last_CoD_Ghost
Try to put them in separate rooms give it a few days then let them out if they don't attack each other congrats if fail try agen
on April 02, 2015
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gothicskittlescupcake
You should seperate them then.maybe toasha is jealous.
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Not at all am I mad! :)
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gothicskittlescupcake
Oh,I just though I upset you.
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on December 13, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
I didn't say they don't have feelings they do just not jealousy they have almost every feeling a human can have but not jealousy because even if they are domesticated animals they still are wild at heart so they still go by wild cat rules even though they are infact domesticated.
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gothicskittlescupcake
I know you didn't say the first thing.I just think your cats being territorial.if I made you made,im sorry.
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on December 13, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Ok my cats fighting has already been stated twice now that the problem is solved but thank you for your concern and though cats have feelings like humans they don't get jealous, jealousy is not a trait in a cat but if you mean they are getting territorial and wanting to establish dominance then that's a very good explanation
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gothicskittlescupcake
Yes,they have feelings like humans.how much attention does she get rhough,my cats do that sometimes.yes,I mean they are getting tertitorial.thank you.
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on December 13, 2014
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RoseHeart
Toasha isn't that old (cats can live up to 20 years) also you should separate them
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Oh don't worry the problems been taken care of now apparently jack just needed time to mature thanks for your concern though!
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RoseHeart
That's good, Toasha should live at least 10 more years if she doesn't get sick
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on December 11, 2014
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LunaWolf279
Orrrr , get a cat tree that jack can't climb or a perch that jack can't get to , that way when hacks getting on toasha nerves she can get away from him ^_^
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Oh toasha actually does that with the filing cabinet! :)
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on November 13, 2014
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LunaWolf279
Ok well , fed them in the same room , play with them in the same room , and , keep jack in his crate and let toasha smell him and get used to his wild spirt .
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on November 13, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
He doesn't have a crate.
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on November 13, 2014
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LunaWolf279
Than , it sounds mean , but put him in a biz with holes ?
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Elleyd
Cat specialist here! Got 5 of my own so I know what's up. You have to do a re-introduction. Basically, you're going to separate them for a bit, then slowly re-introduce them to each other by placing them in the same room with foods, toys, distractions, cat nip, and hiding places. Control the situation and make sure the cats are happy. Ask me for more if this isn't enough.
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Yes I watch it sometimes
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Elleyd
He is the most accurate man I have ever heard
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on November 13, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
I tried that before my dang mom won't let me though she thinks its "forcing them to get along" sometimes she just gets in the way -_-
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Elleyd
I know the feeling but have you heard of "My Cat from Hell"?
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on November 13, 2014
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Nightcat
Cats are tough. This would happen on the streets normally anyway. She won't hurt him seriously, just put him off.
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But he usually never takes a hint
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on November 12, 2014
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Wolfaswag
Well, older cats are very territorial than younger cats younger cats are curious and I think u should ask the vet about these kinds of problems they know ?
Your_Average_Fangirl
That's good and all it really is but since toasha is old and doesn't play she runs away from him and she's always 10 seconds away from a mental breakdown so I need to find a way to get them both to make up with eachother
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on November 12, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
I guess not but I will look it up because my mom most likely will be too busy we both have a dentist appointment tomorrow
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Will they charge us? Because vet bills are VERY VERY VERY! Expensive. Soo...
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Wolfaswag
To be honest I really dont know whenever its time to takr one of ur cats to vet ask questions or search up online resources im not really good at answering cat questions and I understand how u feel DESPERATE OF YOUR BABEHS hehe sorry about that and bills... your not buying or paying for questions are you?
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Celia_Bowen
Relax. I have the EXACT SAME situation with my two cats & I KNOW (especially since my mum's a vet) that they are only play fighting, however terrifying (yes, I know how terrifying it can be). Jack and Toasha are simply trying to establish dominance. If Jack gets too bad, one swipe with claws from Toasha will put him off. You only need to worry if you start noticing that Toasha has bald spots , is over grooming a particular area, ignoring her food or limping/in obvious pain, in See More
Your_Average_Fangirl
Ok I will come back with results as soon as I can! :)
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on November 12, 2014
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Oh well they been at it for a month now and jack usually starts it toasha often try's to retreat but jack chases her sooo..it usually doesn't stop until jack gets bored of it all
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Celia_Bowen
Squatter bottle him or just stomp next to him to scare him whenever he does this.
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Your_Average_Fangirl
Thank you so much! When will their dominance establishment stop though? Just curious.
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Celia_Bowen
Well it all depends on the animals. Sometimes it will continue even after dominance is established, or sometimes it can last less than a week. I really couldn't tell you. Personally though, my cats started to stop at about the two month mark, occasionally they still squabble, but nowhere near how they used to.
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bluebear0914
They are just playing. All will go well
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