Relationship Help So just for context me and my guy best friend are in an unofficial dating relationship (if that makes sense) and the only reason why its unofficial is because he doesn't want to date yet which i'm okay with but like what shoul id do if i want to make it official without being pushy?

I'm a lil late, but that sounds sketchy af. Unofficial relationship is not a real thing. Either he felt pressured to get in a relationship with u, or he wants to enjoy the benefits of being in a relationship while also being "officially" single. If you have to push for him to commit, he is NOT worth your time or energy. The boy should be 100% invested in you, proudly telling the world that ur his boo.
It's cool if he's not ready. But just cuz he's not ready does not mean you gotta See More settle for the crumbs that he is willing to offer you. It's all or nothing