I don't know what to do about my boyfriend Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for about three years on and off, we were recently off because he says that I just get with other guys all the time, when honestly I've never cheated on him. he cheated on me and the way he see's it is that I get with everyone when i'm at school; like I just take them into the bathroom or something. but I don't, so last night he was digging around my room and he found a condom wrapper, from when my sister blew it up like a balloon just to mess around. and he started saying I was lying and that I got with all these other boys, but I didn't! I do love him and I really want it to work out, but I don't think he's the same anymore. What should I do?? i'm so confused. HELP?
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I'm going to say this and I know you don't want to to hear this. But accusing you is verbal abuse. Leave him. Think about how he acts now and how he will act later on. I am a survivor of domestic violence. I was thrown down a flight of stairs. Not saying he would do that to you but think about it. Also him accusing you is a red flag. He is accusing you because he is the one in the wrong. If he is not cheating on you, than there is no trust there. And that's very important. Though See More there is away around it. You should set boundaries. Some people just jump into a relationship but girly I tell you get out of it now before it get's worse. I wish you luck.
CeceNel94
It's all good. and your welcome girly.
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on September 11, 2013
Lexi_Rayne
Thanks and I'm sorry that someone did that to you.. no one deserves that
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on September 11, 2013
on September 10, 2013
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Ok so i had a boyfriend jest like yours and he did the things that he did only cus i would hang out with my brother's homeboys all the time they been around since i was 12 and they toke me in as a little sister but nothing more yes! we toke pictures 2gether yes! they toke care of me when i was sick as a dog yes!! i told them i loved them thats only cus they were like big brothers to me and would do anything for me so i got sick of telling him that i let him think what he wanted See More to think and then a week later i get a call from a girl that he was messing around with so the whole time he was telling me i was doing something he was doing something so i jest let his lame tail go and moved on.
on May 18, 2014
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he should be able to trust you. Maybe look him straight in the eye and say you didn't do it and if that doesn't work he doesn't deserve to be yours and dump him!
on October 06, 2013
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Just break his heart, i,ve been heartbroken before and you just cant date a guy who breaks your heart
on September 11, 2013
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If he doesn't trust you then he's not someone you should hang around. It might break your heart but what would happen if he were to break up with you. You would hurt so much more. You should also forgive him for accusing you, but you don't have to tell him so. ur in high school right? im going to assume you are. this is only high school which means its temporary. it will work out in the long run. I wish ya good luck chicka
on September 11, 2013
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Leave him. You are obviously clinging to something that is bad for you. I get that you love him, and that you dot want to leave, but don't you think you deserve better? He's a cheater, and sounds to me like a bully. There are alot better guys out there. Ones that don't cheat, and don't accuse, and every girl deserves one, especially you:)
You'll find a great guy eventually they can't all be bad......if they are you might meet someone new
on March 02, 2014
on September 11, 2013
on September 10, 2013