Is 4 years too big of an age gap?

My personal max is probably 5-6 years, but hey, who am I to judge? Love is love.

I know of a couple with an age gap of 20 years. The mom is currently about 30 and the stepfather 50.

It depends on the age. For example 13 and 17 is ridiculous. Whereas 18 and 22 is okay. It just depends on maturity level.

My parents are 5 years apart and it works, they've been married 49 years ^.^
Personally, I think the max is 8 years

I would like to know myself.

Why would it be big? Wtf people are just too over the top these days.

As long as there's no sexual activity, it's fine.

There has to be an option like: "depends on their age"...

depends how old they are.

Not if both of both people are 20+ years old

It is in some conditions. A 14-year-ol ddating an 18-year-old, yes it's a large gap, but it's fine when someone is past 20

Let's say this:

A 22 y/o and a 26 y/o. Perfectly fine.

Next scenario:

An 18 y/o and 14 y/o. Not fine. 17 y/o and 13 y/o. Not fine. If you're a teen, find someone in your age area. 18 y/o, 17 y/o. 18 y/o, 16 y/o (maybe).

no!!! love is love!!!

I don't really think 4 years is too big of an age gap.

Though, if you want my honest opinion, I do think that when we're younger, it would be better to date someone around the same age, as the two of you can relate better. When you're older, like mid to late twenties, or early thirties, then I think the age gap doesn't make as much as a difference.

But, as See More I said earlier, if you are younger than mid to late twenties, and the two of you love each other and are willing to work with each other, then I think it'll work...possibly.

(Wow, that was long ?)

NO way

It really depends on how old both people in the relationship are

LOVE KNOWS NO GAPS NO AGE NO GENDER

Legally yes (in America)
TBH as long as they're both over 18 I don't mind...