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i do not think the person im seeing atm realizes how completely unintentionally funny they are omg
identikit
“im not british.” “i actually have quite a few spare oats at the moment” “i shouldve secretly recorded you earlier” “would it be ableist of me to call you four eyes” theyre an accidental comedian
on November 18, 2023
on November 18, 2023
on November 17, 2023
zamn chicago trains r crazy y r they always crashing n shit
in all seriousness im mildly concerned bc the one that j crashed is the one that goes to the suburb a friend of mine lives in and they take it every morning and i think they’re prob fine bc they leave early in the morning i think but still 1?!).$
on November 16, 2023
on November 16, 2023
was on a date a few nights ago heres the highlights
-played a show— my friend was with us. she told me she noticed they were noticeably mirroring my body language and when i was performing they were smiling through the whole thing (they aren’t really a smiley person— very reserved!)
-we wanted to get treats but bakery was closed
-we walked to the lakeside and i gave them a private concert
-didn’t stay there very long tho, it was really cold right next to the lake and even i See More was chilly so like they must’ve been dying
-went back into the city. ended up at a park. talked ab life.
-finally walked them back to the train station n they left (stayed up another few hours bc one of the trains that goes to their suburb had quit running, i wasnt sleeping til they told me they made it home)
-played a show— my friend was with us. she told me she noticed they were noticeably mirroring my body language and when i was performing they were smiling through the whole thing (they aren’t really a smiley person— very reserved!)
-we wanted to get treats but bakery was closed
-we walked to the lakeside and i gave them a private concert
-didn’t stay there very long tho, it was really cold right next to the lake and even i See More was chilly so like they must’ve been dying
-went back into the city. ended up at a park. talked ab life.
-finally walked them back to the train station n they left (stayed up another few hours bc one of the trains that goes to their suburb had quit running, i wasnt sleeping til they told me they made it home)
on November 11, 2023
‘wont touch most food with hands bc of emetophobial gf x “wont touch most food with hands bc they dont like how it feels” partner
on November 04, 2023
i will never feel not guilty for the person i was a few years ago. i was so mean and for what but my own entertainment
people aren’t rly that nice to the person im seeing and it genuinely makes me so sad bc they didnt do anything wrong. they’re a little bit “offputting” according to some people and when you first talk to them they can seem a little bit disinterested but theyre not. they’re just nervous. there’s literally no reason to be mean to them, they j dont rly fit in
on November 01, 2023
there’s rly no good reason (w the exception of legitimately terrible people who arent willing to change) and all it does is hurt people in the long run
on November 01, 2023
on November 01, 2023
on November 01, 2023
literally just realizing that the universe is a sneaky fuckk and absolutely everything going on my life seems to be helping me be more direct in every aspect
im usually SO scared to speak my mind/say what i mean. j had to reject a guy directly which is so hard for me. im learning to be more direct w the person im seeing bc they struggle w social cues so they dont always pick up on my subtle clues
on October 31, 2023
on October 31, 2023
the recap of the day:p
-met at bus stop + rode bus to this suburb
-ended up in this little japanese garden
-went into the woods and decorated ourselves with leaves
-literally j wandered around looking for cool things for a while
-went to the lake and found some cool whimsical items
-by this point it was cooling down so i gave them my scarf (this was 1000% planned ngl i specifically wore the scarf bc i knew they were going to end up being cold) See More
-eventually it j got so cold we decided to go back to the loop and go to a cafe
-found a moth. caught it and took it on the bus with us
-got off bus, released moth, i started getting genuinely concerned bc it had gotten significantly colder and they couldn’t stop shaking despite wearing my scarf and having their coat zipped (they do not handle the cold well at all + when they’re too cold for too long it can give them migraines and neither of us wanted that happening)
-went to this coffee place and got pastries and hot drinks
-met at bus stop + rode bus to this suburb
-ended up in this little japanese garden
-went into the woods and decorated ourselves with leaves
-literally j wandered around looking for cool things for a while
-went to the lake and found some cool whimsical items
-by this point it was cooling down so i gave them my scarf (this was 1000% planned ngl i specifically wore the scarf bc i knew they were going to end up being cold) See More
-eventually it j got so cold we decided to go back to the loop and go to a cafe
-found a moth. caught it and took it on the bus with us
-got off bus, released moth, i started getting genuinely concerned bc it had gotten significantly colder and they couldn’t stop shaking despite wearing my scarf and having their coat zipped (they do not handle the cold well at all + when they’re too cold for too long it can give them migraines and neither of us wanted that happening)
-went to this coffee place and got pastries and hot drinks
on October 30, 2023
i love telling my family the town where the person im talking to is from bc they all just assume its the one in florida
on October 18, 2023
ahen me and s***** went on pur first date they disclosed like their full lore to me including childhood trauma amd their dead name (knowing all of this ablut them feels ILLEGAL even tho they told me 100% willingly i did not even ask)
on October 10, 2023
happy national boyfriend day (neither of us r boys and we haven’t made things official yet)
on October 04, 2023
hate having it but emetophobia is such an interesting condition in sense that it takes over our minds and our lives completely and every thought and every action is based around it
on October 02, 2023
how does one go about sharing affection w someone who’s incredibly awkward and socially a mess without making them feel uncomfortable or pressured
like my go to for most people is holding hands but i’m so scared to just try that w them (they haven’t said anything to me about it and it’s not my place to make any guesses but based on how they talk, their interests, their tendency to shut down from time to time, and the way they actively avoid making eye contact with anyone i think there’s a possibility they’re See More in some way neurodivergent) and in my experience (as someone with adhd) nd people can SOMETIMES be super iffy about touch, i’d y hate to make them feel forced into something they don’t want LMAO
on October 02, 2023
it’s rly weird like,, we’re doing well, they seem to like me a lot and i think they’re great, we’ve gone out and we text a lot and they’ve def gotten more comfortable with me to the point where they comfortably talk about their interests and some more personal things they’ve experienced but they’re veryyy socially anxious and from what i’ve picked up on people See More aren’t usually very nice to them (it makes me feel really bad actually, i’ll literally treat them with basic human decency and they’re like “wow fr thank you so much you’re so kind and understanding” and i’m j like “you’re welcome dude but it’s no big deal i literally just told you it’s okay if ur a few minutes late bc ur train got delayed”) so i feel like if i made any sort of real move they’d prob go into shock
on October 02, 2023
on October 02, 2023
twice a week i have to go to orchestra rehearsal and pretend i didn’t make out with the bassist to radiohead
hes not it anymore bc he graduated but i also made out w one of the old guitar players which is pretty funny i think
on November 05, 2024
on September 30, 2023
thinking about how i called my friend (who i think i might cut off bc she’s really mean) out for being openly transphobic towards the person i’m talking to and she said that it’s bc she’s slovakian and “they/them pronouns are an american thing nobody does that in eastern europe” (she doesn’t know that they’re an immigrant from eastern europe)
on September 30, 2023
my dad has developed an affinity for asking me if my friends are autistic and personally i think HE need to get evaluated
update i hate making assumptions but lowkey he could possibly be right ab the person im seein tho they were telling me yesterday ab how they were upset bc find it hard to make friends and people find them a little offputting and how they like watching the same movies several times in a row and how they literally had to train themself to make “fake eye contact” See More by looking above people instead of staring directly at the ground brian u may have a point
on October 31, 2023
on September 30, 2023