Getting out of the friendzone (Chapter 4)
Don't be one of the guys.If you've been friends with the same guy for a long time, then it's likely that he's grown accustomed to seeing you as one of the guys. If this is the case, you have to change his perspective immediately. There are some quick things you can do to make it clear that you are an amazing and desirable woman instead of one of his bros.
• Don't be overly vulgar. Maybe he and his friends make gross jokes, fart noises, and whatever else it is that guys do. You should not only not join in, but crinkle your nose and make it clear that this behaviour is not OK around you.
• Don't pal around. There's a difference between touching to flirt and paling around. Don't let him gently push you or tap you like he would to one of his guy friends. If he wants to engage in non-flirtatious roughhousing, step away.
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