My mom has cancer and I am prepared for her to die but I am not sad. Is it wrong how I feel? First, off I do not hate my mother. There are things I do not approve of But I do love her. So my mom has had cancer three times before this. The first time she had it I was about ten years old. I thought she was going to die. Luckily she was able to pull through. Unluckily it came back three times. The first three times it was breast cancer. It has now spread and now it is neck cancer. My mother complains about her legs hurting so I believe that the cancer has spread elsewhere. Since this is her fourth time having cancer and it has spread to other parts, I believe she is going to die. The thing is, I'm sure I will have moments where I will miss her but the thought of her death does not sadden me. I do fear about what will happen financially and how my siblings will cope with it. And since I am a Christian and my mother is not, nor does she have any motivation to be one, I am saddened at the thought that I will not see her when I pass.
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Life is hard at the times like this...and I don't blame you from that...but...if she passes away...wherever you go...I'm sure that she will always be there to guide you and your beloved siblings...the long as you're ok...of course I wouldn't love my own mother because the terrible things that she did to me...I've been abused, forced into a lot of things and threatened from the past...but...you in the other hand...you were lucky to have someone that cares for you dearly...and that See More pretty much what matters the most...I'm not trying to be rude or anything...I'm just trying my best to support you in a nice way...and to be honest...I'm really sorry about your mother...I just wish there was another way cure her from here... of course I may not meant to be born as a human being...but I will always care for one person to another...the long as they're ok...even if they didn't care for me back...I will always be there for them or my beloved ones...the long as they're safe...especially you...?
on November 12, 2018
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Spend time with her. The reality that she might die may not have taken its effect. Pray for her and show her your love. It’s hard to know she could die, and preparing for it is a good way to deal with it.
I agree that I should spend more time with her but I fear that it will make her death more upsetting, not that when she dies I'll be happy or anything but that it'll hurt more, but I understand that I should learn to also consider others feelings more. Yeah I believe that the reality has not taken affect as well, but when my grandmother passed when I was eight, See More I never cried for her, though I spent almost everyday with her. Then again I was younger then. Yes I will continue to pray for her and I'll try my best to show her that I love her. How shall I prepare for her death? Thank you for you feedback! It helped me! God Bless!
on November 13, 2018
on November 12, 2018
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I feel like it's not wrong, although odd. This may be that you aren't saddened by it most likely because it'll be relief of her pain, but it is odd in certian ways.
Thank you, she has been through a lot so I do want her to get out of certain things so in some odd way I see this as a kind of escape for her.
on November 13, 2018
on November 12, 2018
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Im sorry about that but anything could happen
We are looking for a cure each and every day.
Yes I know but I guess that's just life. Yeah my mother and I have heard that marijuana helps, so we think that she'll try it this time.
on November 13, 2018
on November 12, 2018
on November 12, 2018
Thank you...I'll do the best as I can to stay alive, no matter how hard I tried by helping others from here...I also appreciate you for supporting me too as well...it was very kind of you... ^-'
Of course and you're very welcome miss...?
I know...that's what everyone says to me...they are happy that I'm alive because I haven't committed suicide yet from depression...but...I'm always trying my best to stay positive at all costs...and always willing to help from one person to another...knowIng that I can't leave them behind...the long as See More they're ok... I decided to guide them...because I felt of what they felted from the inside...and I don't blame anyone from that...so I decided to do what's best for them from part of it...to support everyone who might need it the most within love and care... ^-'