how do I get her to talk (1) So once again there is this girl I'm really interested in I've known her for about four years and I want to take our friendship to the next level. But I'm afraid to ask her out cause she ask me to come outside and all we do is play on our phones and ask each other questions every once in a while. I just wanna know how do I get her to talk, what do I do what do I say?