Boys, Boil and Bubbles? Me and my boyfriend are hitting it off. Like crap, man, like crap. I just don't know how to make the next move. He makes hints, like coming into my room, or nibbling on my ear *which is NOT gross if you think about it...or DONT* and I didn't get what he was getting at until he actually nodded towards my bed. I'm only 16!!! I think he wants to have yhu-know-what with me, and I'm not saying I don't ever want to either, I just don't think the time is now. All that stuff that men and women do in bed, I kind of like the idea. I just don't want to do it NOW. But my boyfriend...he's so sweet. There's not a chance I can turn him down easily. Any suggestions?

Boys, Boil and Bubbles? Me and my boyfriend are hitting it off. Like crap, man, like crap. I just don't know how to make the next move. He makes hints, like coming into my room, or nibbling on my ear *which is NOT gross if you think about it...or DONT* and I didn't get what he was getting at until he actually nodded towards my bed. I'm only 16!!! I think he wants to have yhu-know-what with me, and I'm not saying I don't ever want to either, I just don't think the time is now. All that stuff that men and women do in bed, I kind of like the idea. I just don't want to do it NOW. But my boyfriend...he's so sweet. There's not a chance I can turn him down easily. Any suggestions?

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Luna_laufeyson
Just tell him that (if you do) feel uncomfortable that he puts you in these situations, and that you don't want to get THAT serious with him just yet. He should understand, but if he doesn't you should probably leave him. (please take note that I am not a professional and this is just a suggestion)
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Frostgoddess
I don't think you should do things like that unless you're married to that person.
tiffany16
I understand your reasoning. Thank you :)
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on April 03, 2014
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Elleyd
um no. You're 16!!! I would break up with him but seeing as you're ok with that i would just have to say no. You can't do that unless u r REALLY REALLY REALLY sure about him! You have to ask yourself would you marry him? how would he treat you in later life? is he gonna break up with u (which he or you will). You cannot, understand? You are too young and too unprepared. Sorry to go all mother on you but moms usually kno what they're talking about.
Elleyd
Yep they made me laugh so hard and I needed that so whatever
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on May 18, 2014
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MEGS0316
lol no prob :)
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on May 18, 2014
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Elleyd
Thank you so much but don't bother I blocked, reported, and am pretty sure she got kicked off. Anyways I thank her for preparing me for the next 4 years of my life; i now have an infinite number of come backs.
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on May 18, 2014
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MEGS0316
uhm ok i kno this is late but this is my opinion. @tiffany16 u dont have to get all bi*tchy bout it. u asked for advice she gave it to u stop acting like a bench and start listening to ppl's opinions. look at her advice again and if ur not stuck up ull c some good advice there.
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stuck.in.a.creepy.house
lol elleyd u got TOLD
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on April 04, 2014
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tiffany16
DUDE I TOLD U OFF!!
THIS GUY....I WANT TO LIVE WITH HIS FREAKIN BOOTY!!!
(OF COURSE...NOT NOW LOL)
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on April 04, 2014
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Elleyd
I'm not mad you asked for advice and I gave it to you. and ur 16 r u really sure u love him?
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tiffany16
Ok, Elleyd. Overall, I think your idea is the WORST. Um no?? Sorry to go all teenage on you, but I HATE that idea. Now now, I didn't say I hate you, but obviously I really really love this guy. Don't hate cuz I'm boo-tiful!! lol mad or naw?
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