What do I do? I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!! Ok, I have this ex-boyfriend that I love more than anything and he still loves me. But he left me for some ***** that he doesn't even like, well he tells me and her that he loves her too, but I don't believe it for a second. He used to be so nice and caring and wouldn't leave me alone and now he doesn't want to talk to me or have anything to do with me because this girl says not to. Well this girl doesn't like me what so ever and never has and her best friend told me that shes only doing it to make me mad. I'm really confused I've talked to a teacher and my ex today and I was hoping it would make it better but it didn't. it' been going on since Monday night and everyone in the whole school thinks he is making the biggest mistake of his life. So do I. I still love him though and I really need help. I was crying and so the girl was laughing at me and so I've stopped since Tuesday and keep holding my head high. Her best friend said that if I keep it up that she will lay off and not find it funny. But it is so hard not to cry and I force myself to laugh and smile and all my friends see that and it's really hard and when I'm at home all I do is cry. I'm really tough and I never ever cry so this is really affecting me. I want him to take me back more than anything in the world, I've prayed and everything. I know that if it's meant to be he will come back but I want him back now. I sent him a really long text today after school of exactly how I felt and hopefull it helps, but I don't know. I just love him a lot and really miss him. Please help me!!!!!!!
Answers (11)
vote up or down the answers
Answer Link
That is a problem...well i say the girl that is dating him currently is a whore that is desperate so it won't last long with them. You should just talk to both of them seperate. Tell that girl that it isnt effecting you even if it is and tell her that she is stupid to get a girl angry over something so trivial. I say stand up to her and tell her your feelings.
on March 16, 2012
Answer Link
on July 30, 2013
Answer Link
If a guy really and truly loves you he wont do anything to hurt you. I know its hard to give up someone you loved for so long think of the good times you had together and just know he will always be with you in your heart.
on June 18, 2013
Answer Link
on August 08, 2012
Answer Link
that is the same problem as i have. One of my friends has turned on me cuz my ex is going out wiv her now and i love him like crazy. she keeps bugging me and annoying me about it. He hardly ever talks to me now and i feel like i want to just punch that girl. But I can't. I ignore her and act tough. Honestly, please try not to cry and you will make it. I know what it is like.
on July 24, 2012
Answer Link
i think u should talk 2 him that is exatly wat is hapening 2 me . and he says he just want 2 be friends . but i want 2 be more than that . so i gave him notes telling him how i fell so lonly wothout him and that i will do anything 2 get back with him.but he just keeps saying he just wants 2 be friends that is all but try tallking 1 2 him . or if u dont fell like talking 2 him give him notes. WISH U LUCK!
on June 15, 2012
Answer Link
I think he likes her if he chose to be with her. He will return to you if he want you but you do not have to do anything to separate them. take care.
on March 16, 2012