which one should i choose? So, iv been dating this guy now for 3 days and i feel like we are losing our connection...i love him a lot but we dont get to talk as much as i like anymore. I met this other guy a few weeks ago and we have been talking everyday ever since. He is really sweet and takes me to all these places, i dont know what he thinks of me, he is always smiling when he sees me. I dont wanna ruin the relationship that i have now if i can somehow fix it, but im already starting to like this new guy a little more everytime i see him, i dont know what to do.

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quizheart123
If your current relationship keeps on losing it's connection then it probably won't get better. It sounds like you really like this other guy so if your current relationship doesn't get better by the end of the week my advice would be to leave it and focus more on this other guy. But give it a bit before your breakup with your bf because he might need a bit of space!!
on February 28, 2012
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lizzie554
well you can just listen tp your self and spent the same amount of time with the both of them and then let the other guy down easy so you can still be friends. ok?
on February 29, 2012
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rocker
choose the one that you have more fun with,that understands you better,that listen to you and that you like the best.don't choose the one guy that likes you the best just because of that.choose him because you truly prefer hanging out with him and because you love him more that the other guy.in your actual relationship you should try doing new things with him.
on February 28, 2012
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Date the other guy. The one right now seems over you, so dump him and date the cutie that smiles at you all the time :)
on May 29, 2015
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I had that problem, I broke up with guy one and waited a while and then made some slow advances on guy two to see if actually wanted to be with me because it's not really right to be with one guy when you like another guy.
on March 27, 2015
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screamocutie
break up with dude 1 ask out dude 2
on March 03, 2014
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Reploid_Zero
I've had a similar problem, but I say, stay true to your first mate, then go on as a LAST resort, that is if I'm not to late like the person I am.
on August 29, 2013
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I have been in a relationship with my son's dad for 3 years and 8 months when we broke up for the 5th time already. But this time itwas for real and i met the most amazing guy who really shows care and loving. Then I started talking to my ex bf again. It complicated everything. They found out about each other but eventualy my new bf gave me another chance and I have decided to commit this time even though its hard for me to move on. Just as I thought I was over my ex he pitch See More
on July 11, 2013
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mollyisnotonfire
You need to see how much your boyfriend likes you. If he loves you more than this other guy you are hanging out with, then stay with your boyfriend. If you see him drifting away from you, then maybe it's time to move on to the other guy and see if he is interested in you.
on June 04, 2013
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