Should I be nice to him? So I've had some rough times with the guys (they would say something mean to me or my friend and i would instinctively protect me or them). Now I want to have a good last year and I want to be friends with everyone. But it's hard to to make a witty comeback and still be nice I'm trying but I feel like they are still being mean to my friends and me which I cant stand and i have to defend us! So should i even try and stress when they might not change?
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on April 30, 2014
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you know how people say girls are complicated well guys can too guys sometimes tease you when they have a crush on you and sometimes you just have to kind of act like them too i have burping contests with guys in my class and most of the guys respect me and dont make fun of me but you have to earn your place guys are like wolfs in a way in a wolf pack its pretty much every man for him self you have to see which guy is like the leader of all the guys in your grade you have to See More bound with him like burping contests arm wrestling ect maybe beat him in a few contests sit with the guys at lunch and dont be afraid to trake some risks while doing so i sit with guys at lunch all the time and what can i say there pretty cool when you get to know them
on September 29, 2013
on September 29, 2013
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You can't be liked by everyone. The fact that you try so hard too fit in with everybody, is already a reason for several people to not like you (no offense)You should just hang out with people you like and always being nice to everyone and people are teasing you, you first must think if it is to bully you or just tease you a little bit. With the first one you just make a witty comment, because screw them and you don't want to be their friend anyway, do you? You don't have to See More like everyone so everyone will like you back. You be much more content just hanging around people you like and ignore the rest. Hope this helps!
Thank you so much I understand exactly what you're saying the only issue is that there is only 22 people in my grade and only 11 in my class and I dont feel as if I'm connected (truthfully they arent close friend/ bff material in my opinion) to ANY of them. and i'm giving up on the one close friend I had for other matters... So thanks I'm just trying to figure See More out who to branch out too :)
on September 29, 2013
on September 28, 2013