help! help!! help!!! Help! Help!! Help!!! HELP! HELP!! HELP!!! OK, so my friend Grace is being bullied. I have drawn a picture with some of the things that has been said to her on it because qfeast wouldn't allow me to type it, it's the question picture. She has become very depressed and has started selfharming... What do I do? And, more importantly, what should she do?!
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I went through worse for the whole of my life, I tried to kill my self, cut my self. Eventually I ended up nearly killing someone. Fortunately/unfortunately I got sent to a mental hospital and not prison. That is how bad it can get. The one mistake I made is I tried to handle it on my own. TELL AN ADULT
Nopebye
something similar to this person i know except they still did not stop and they dont tell anyone why they do that and people keeps on calling him Suicide and he is fine with it!!
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on June 14, 2017
KiraOsborne
ok, thanks! will do!
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on August 05, 2013
on July 28, 2013
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i went through the same thing i self harmed for years what i had to do was get a consaler and try to get help and if she doesnt want help then just be there for her and try to help get through this what i did was draw ir write how i felt that day or i wrote poatry i hope this helped and if you ever need a little bit more help come talk to me ill try yo help the best way i can
on July 22, 2013
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You should tell a adult because it can be worse,abd you dnt want nothing to happen to her
on July 21, 2013
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Tell her mom is what you should do. And She should, A. Tell them to stop. If the Bully just shoves her, then stick up for her and shove the bully back
on July 21, 2013
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well you need to confront the people who are bullying her.. first of all and tell them to knock that crap off...and if that doesn't work you need to tell an adult... and if all else fails give them a good beating. ~hope that helps.. :3
heh I wouldn't trust me though... I have an obsession over a phycho path murderer and I also cosplay as one.. so I'm not the best advice giver
on July 20, 2013
well, I am known for being the strongest girl in my year... and I'm stronger than all the boys so...
on July 20, 2013
on July 20, 2013
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i was bullied in first grade and told my parents well my dad took some action for it but my mom just made fun of me and she still does!! I mean for God's sake it's been 9 years so the best advice i can come up with is the either u can change school ir tell someone like if you have good parents then tell them they can take some actions!!
on July 20, 2013
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Report this to a parent or a guardian. I know bullies always threaten you like if you tell then... But trust me it's the best thing to do. If she's self harming then I think you should definitely tell someone as they could help her, that's the best thing to do!
Oh and here's a song you should send her!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=I-G8IfjPAII
And also if you want tell her this:
Never give up. You only get one life. Go for it!
Or don't give up because you are loved. See More
Just hope this helps :)
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=I-G8IfjPAII
And also if you want tell her this:
Never give up. You only get one life. Go for it!
Or don't give up because you are loved. See More
Just hope this helps :)
on July 20, 2013
Great! I hope everything will work out and your friend will stop being bullied! Good luck!
on July 20, 2013
on July 20, 2013
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well, this is kinda personal but I trust most people but barely I have had a shitty life I had a friend who just kind of pushed me back for a girl that liked him but who liked me first until she said I was too short for her. I am currently suffering from depression. I have thought about suicide and have again recently. a friend has insulted me. I have been bullied my whole life. I can't handle life too much anymore I am pretty much hanging on by a thread
on October 07, 2022
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i been through that stage(still am really)but i ve stopped self harming .open up to her and let her know your there for her but whatever you do dont google how to support self harmers because shell think your being too interfering
on March 01, 2019
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Explain to her why it isnt good to self harm. Give her a notebook and tell her to write about herself. Write all the amazing things about her. Remind her that she will always get haters.
on February 06, 2018
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Tell an adult, professional or even the school principal, I used to self harm to, and its also good if she writes down her worry's, if u ever see her bully's, she should ignore them, And u should stand up to them, PS: don't be afraid to go crazy on them>:)
on February 06, 2018
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turn in the bully slap the bully and stick to your friend like glue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3
on October 12, 2015
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1. you are good at drawing xD
2. try to convince her to stop self harming!
3. step up for her, show the bullies who is an upstander.
4. hope you enjoy my tips xD
2. try to convince her to stop self harming!
3. step up for her, show the bullies who is an upstander.
4. hope you enjoy my tips xD
on July 21, 2015
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try to stand up for her or tell the nearest person she is being bullied. Bully's get there power from no one standing up to them. Trust me i have been bullied a lot in my life.
on April 16, 2015
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You are good at drawing is the good part XXDD ok so you need help huh? well idk xDD sorry! i dont have time xD
on April 15, 2015
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Is she ok now? Or better?
on March 03, 2014
They've started to stop but shes still selfharming loads and shes got a therapy group and stuff but im dead worried about her! -.-
on March 03, 2014
on March 02, 2014
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-tell the bullies that if they want to bully your friend anymore they'd have to get past you!! Then hold your ground.
- just tell her to ignore them because they don't really mean it and they might not understand that it actually hurts.
- the bullies probably don't have a good life at home and you should tell the bullies and an adult about how it does hurt to be bullied.
-tell your friend to be come a wall so the words bounce off. (it's what i do and it works really well.) See More
those bullies are mean. X-(
- just tell her to ignore them because they don't really mean it and they might not understand that it actually hurts.
- the bullies probably don't have a good life at home and you should tell the bullies and an adult about how it does hurt to be bullied.
-tell your friend to be come a wall so the words bounce off. (it's what i do and it works really well.) See More
those bullies are mean. X-(
on March 01, 2014
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Support her, protect her from bullies, and always go with her, block the words that hurt her, comfort her and most of all pray for her :)
on December 20, 2013
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Tell her to stop i know what ur thinking oh another great idea (not) but be firm and keep trying be her rock and be there for her it helps allot of that doesn't work
In a month then get help from a adult
In a month then get help from a adult
on December 15, 2013
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BTW nice drawing minus the words
haha, thanks... im gonna take a photo with my ipad of all 15 drawings ive been working on and ill put them on here!
on July 20, 2013
on July 20, 2013
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Fighting doesn't get you ANYWHERE. Tell a responsible adult, someone you and Grace trust. Whatever you do give her support. She needs some help by a grown-up. Good luck Kira and tell her it's gonna be fine!
on July 20, 2013
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Now find the happy face and you'll get your wish in 3 days.
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Now put this on 5 places on Qfeast and look under your pillow.
on June 14, 2017