Boundary Boss or Blender?

Boundary Boss or Blender?

Discover your unique style of managing personal boundaries in relationships and see how it shapes your interactions with others.

published on November 09
1/11

How do you prioritize your personal time?

How do you prioritize your personal time?
I go with what feels right.
I schedule it regularly.
I’m flexible, but aware of needs.
I set clear boundaries around it.
2/11

What do you do if someone uses your things without asking?

What do you do if someone uses your things without asking?
It doesn’t bother me much.
I gently remind them to ask.
I set a rule about it.
I let it slide.
3/11

How do you handle sharing personal space?

How do you handle sharing personal space?
I set clear zones.
I’m very accommodating.
I prefer my space respected.
I don’t mind.
4/11

What’s your approach to saying no?

What’s your approach to saying no?
I’m direct and respectful.
I go with the flow.
I clearly state my reasons.
I struggle, but manage at times.
5/11

How do you react when someone cancels plans last minute?

How do you react when someone cancels plans last minute?
I shrug it off.
I’m understanding. Things happen!
I express my disappointment.
I ask them to reschedule ASAP.
6/11

If a friend is too demanding, you:

If a friend is too demanding, you:
Calmly discuss your limits.
Reduce the time you spend with them.
Let it unfold as it will.
Try to accommodate when possible.
7/11

When a friend is upset, how do you help?

When a friend is upset, how do you help?
I listen and try to empathize.
I offer advice and support.
I give them space.
I find out what they specifically need.
8/11

How do you feel about confrontation?

How do you feel about confrontation?
I see it as a growth tool.
I avoid it if possible.
I see it as necessary sometimes.
I’m not a fan but can handle it.
9/11

When someone overstepped your boundaries, you:

When someone overstepped your boundaries, you:
Reflect and then decide.
Ignore and move on.
Address it immediately.
Review and adjust the boundaries.
10/11

How do you express your needs in a relationship?

How do you express your needs in a relationship?
I’m pretty flexible.
I have a list of non-negotiables.
I hint at what I need.
I openly communicate them.
11/11

How do you respond to unsolicited advice?

How do you respond to unsolicited advice?
I clarify that I didn’t ask for it.
I thank them for their input.
I explain my stance politely.
I ignore it usually.