We need to talk (Revamped)

Mack's Rants - Issue 2: Are you motherly?

I just want to start out by an unrelated topic saying that I'm calling the rants I do "Mack's Rants" so you can easily find the rants in the "table of contents" type things if that's all you really want to read.
Okay, I know I made this rant before, but I felt it was something I needed to say and I did delete the story where I had this rant, so I think the message needs to be said again. It's the topic of "Are you motherly" or a "real" mom for having a c-section.
Basically, what got me angry about this is my step-mom had shown me something on her Facebook about c-sections. It said that if you had a c-section, you're not a real mother and God wants you to die because you didn't give natural birth.
There are SO many things about this that made me mad, so I'm just going to get into it.
First of all, what kind of Christian judges someone on their health and how they have their baby? The answer: not a REAL Christian. I pride myself in being a Christian and following God's word, somewhat because I disagree with some things in the Bible but that's another rant, and also NOT JUDGING someone or telling them they're not a real mother because of what happened to them while trying to have their baby.
Let me tell you the story of my step-mom and her baby.
My stepmom always had trouble having kids. She could never seem to get pregnant, but then she finally did. And she had a miscarriage. This sucks for the woman and the family. But then, three years later, she got pregnant again. We were ecstatic. She had been taking medicine to help and she finally got pregnant!
So, 7 months later, she started having issues with blood pressure. It got so bad one day, that day happened to be my birthday, that she was taken to the hospital and hospitalized for a week. She went to and from the hospital for the next month, and was put on bed rest. Then, she was in the hospital again. Her blood pressure was through the roof and she started having a stroke. They said it was preeclampsia and they had to get the baby OUT or else they would both die. So, they got my sister out. They were hospitalized for about 3 weeks and I wasn't allowed to even touch my sister when she was born. They had to have a c-section to get my sister out, and I'm glad they did.
ANYWAYS, who the heck are you to tell my stepmom she is not a real mother for doing what she had to do to live and let my sister live? You say "God made you sick for a reason and that it was your's and the baby's time to go," then why didn't God make them die during the c-section or even before that? Clearly, if God wanted them dead he would've had them dead. Not that I think God just wants people to die, but I believe he says when it's their time to go and clearly it wasn't because they're both alive.
This whole thing makes me so angry that I'm shaking. I mean, I always shake but I think the better word is trembling in anger. I know it's been a while since this post was made, but I am SO angry still because a true, good, REAL Christian loves all and doesn't judge, because we are in no place to judge, that's God's place.

Grrrrr..... Thanks for making it this far, and if you don't agree with me, that's fine but you should know that I don't change my opinions because of what you say. I believe that a Christian shouldn't say my stepmom and sister should've died because of what they went through.
Anyways, I love you guys.
xx Mack