self pity
You would think that after awhile a person would clue in that not only do they have the capacity to make different choices and alter their reality, but they also can chose their own attitude.Sure, easier said than done but not impossible.
Most of us don’t like the self-reflection because if we recognize our capacity to change for the better than we’ll feel obliged to change…and that might take time and effort.
Some of us just live in a state of denial and devote most of our time and effort into preserving the image that we are “never at fault” and “always hard done by”.
And then wonder why we don’t have any friends.
I don’t believe this “playing the victim” is a personality trait. I don’t even think it’s learned behaviour. I think it’s a choice some people make in order to shirk the responsibility of creating their own happiness.
I JUST HATE SELF PITY!!!!
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