what do you do when your child/kids are gone? What do you do when your child/kids are not around for a day.Would you do that while he is there??? marvstar published on June 11, 2010 Stacked 1/3 what do you do when child is not there? Have alone time with husband/boyfriend in our rooom Do stuff that you never done when child is around.LIKE? I have alone time for 1/2 hour All of them 2/3 Would you do the given choices above when child is around? I would let him watch what i do when he is gone He could listen to what ido when he is gone I would do it when he is there 3/3 What is it?? I sneak stuff when child is not around Mom or Dad i will tell him what we do when he/she is not around us