Should I break up with him or talk to him about how I feel? There's this guy at school that I have a huge crush on... who happens to be in my grade and is also my current boyfriend ;) One of his really good friends happens to be one of my exes. We don't really have a healthy relationship but hes not abusive at all... which is great. What I mean by an unhealthy relationship is I feel like I'm putting in all the work. The thing I broke with one of his really good friend because I felt like he was paying enough attention to me... and now the same thing happens with my current boyfriend. He never hangs out with me, holds my hand, hugs me, and he barely ever talks to me!