Boundary Secure Find out your boundary-setting style and take the first step in forming healthy relationships. remus2009 published on April 22, 2023 Stacked 1/11 Do you rely on others to speak up first when it comes to setting boundaries? Yes Sometimes No 2/11 When does setting a boundary feel unpleasant to you? When I'm reminded that I am responsible for my own well-being When a boundary might affect another person negatively When I have to confront a friend directly 3/11 Do you have difficulty saying “no”? No Sometimes Yes 4/11 How often do you feel confident when you set boundaries? Rarely Most of the time Sometimes 5/11 Do you think setting healthy boundaries requires ignoring other people's feelings? No It depends Yes 6/11 Do you often worry what other people think when you set a boundary? Sometimes No Yes 7/11 Do you think setting boundaries is worth the risk of potentially damaging your relationships with others? Yes It depends No 8/11 Do you believe that setting boundaries is mandatory for a successful relationship? No Yes Maybe 9/11 Do you generally stick up for yourself when it comes to boundary setting? No Yes Sometimes 10/11 Do you feel confident about speaking up for yourself when it comes to boundaries? Yes No Sometimes 11/11 Do you think setting and maintaining boundaries requires work? No Yes Maybe