The Commitment Compatibility Quiz

Question 1

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Which statement best describes your views on long-term commitment?

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I am open to commitment, but need to feel secure and have the freedom to pursue personal goals.

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Commitment is not a priority for me. I prefer to live life without any long-term commitments.

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I believe in lifelong commitment and will do whatever it takes to make my relationship work.

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I am cautious about commitment, but I am willing to work on it as long as I feel loved and valued.

Question 2

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How important is communication in a committed relationship?

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I don't find it necessary to communicate my feelings and thoughts with my partner.

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Good communication is important, but it should not be the sole focus of a committed relationship.

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I believe open and honest communication is crucial for a successful marriage/commitment.

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Communication is important, but I struggle with expressing myself effectively.

Question 3

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What are your thoughts on compromise and sacrificing for your partner?

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I believe in a balanced approach, where both partners are willing to compromise and make sacrifices.

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I value my independence and personal freedom. I prefer not to compromise or sacrifice for my partner.

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I am willing to make sacrifices and compromise for the sake of my partner and the relationship.

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I find it difficult to sacrifice or compromise, but I recognize its importance in a committed relationship.

Question 4

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How important is trust and fidelity in a committed relationship?

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Trust is important, but a little flexibility can be allowed when it comes to fidelity.

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Trust is vital, but I struggle with trust issues and it affects my ability to fully commit.

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Trust and fidelity are non-negotiable for me in any committed relationship.

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I don't believe in being confined by the traditional notions of trust and fidelity.

Question 5

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What do you think is the main purpose of marriage/commitment?

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I don't see any particular purpose in marriage/commitment. It can limit personal freedom.

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Marriage/Commitment allows for companionship and support in life's ups and downs.

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Marriage/Commitment can be a way to provide security and stability in an uncertain world.

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Marriage/Commitment provides the foundation for a lifelong partnership and growth together.

Question 6

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How comfortable are you with vulnerability and sharing your fears and insecurities?

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I am cautious about being vulnerable, as I fear it could lead to getting hurt or taken advantage of.

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I find it difficult to be vulnerable and express my fears and insecurities with my partner.

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I am completely comfortable being vulnerable and sharing my deepest fears and insecurities.

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I am open to being vulnerable and sharing, but I prefer to take things slow and build trust first.

Question 7

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How important is romance and keeping the spark alive in a committed relationship?

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Romance and keeping the spark alive are essential for a fulfilling committed relationship.

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I don't prioritize romance and believe it's unnecessary for a committed partnership.

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Romance is important, but it should not be the sole focus of a committed relationship.

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I understand the importance of romance, but I struggle to express it in meaningful ways.

Question 8

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What role does independence play in a committed relationship?

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I prioritize my independence and tend to keep a certain level of emotional distance in relationships.

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I struggle with finding a balance between independence and commitment in a relationship.

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Individual independence is valuable, and partners should support each other's personal growth.

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Independence is important, but it should not overshadow the commitment to the relationship.

Question 9

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How important is it to have shared values and goals in a committed relationship?

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Shared values and goals are important, but I struggle to find someone who aligns with mine.

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I don't see the need for shared values and goals. Differences can bring excitement and growth.

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Shared values and goals create a strong foundation for a successful committed relationship.

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While some shared values and goals are important, individuality should also be celebrated.

Question 10

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How comfortable are you with commitment milestones like moving in together or marriage?

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I am hesitant about commitment milestones and need reassurance before taking the next step.

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I am not interested in commitment milestones. They can restrict personal freedom and flexibility.

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I am open to commitment milestones, but I prefer to take things at a comfortable and steady pace.

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I am enthusiastic and ready to embrace commitment milestones whenever the timing feels right.

Question 11

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What level of effort are you willing to put into maintaining a committed relationship?

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I believe both partners should contribute equally to the effort required in a committed relationship.

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I am fully committed and willing to put in a lot of effort to maintain a healthy and happy relationship.

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I want to put effort into a committed relationship, but I sometimes struggle with consistency.

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I prefer a low-maintenance relationship where minimal effort is required to keep things going smoothly.

Question 12

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How do you handle conflicts or disagreements in a committed relationship?

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Handling conflicts requires a balance between assertiveness and willingness to understand each other.

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Conflicts make me question the relationship, and I struggle to find a healthy resolution.

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I tend to avoid conflicts and disagreements to maintain a harmonious environment.

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I believe in open and respectful communication to resolve conflicts and find compromises.