What's Your Boundary Style?

Question 1

1/12

How do you react when someone crosses your boundaries?

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I ignore it and hope it doesn't happen again

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I confront them immediately

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I try to find a compromise

Question 2

2/12

How do you communicate your boundaries to others?

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I avoid the topic altogether

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I drop hints and hope they get the message

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I clearly state my expectations

Question 3

3/12

What do you do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries?

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I let it go and pretend like it didn't happen

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I distance myself from that person

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I reinforce my boundaries and set consequences

Question 4

4/12

How do you handle boundary-setting in a new relationship?

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I establish my boundaries early on

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I avoid setting boundaries to avoid conflict

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I go with the flow and see how it goes

Question 5

5/12

What's your approach to compromising on boundaries?

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I always give in to avoid conflict

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I avoid compromising and stick to my own rules

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I am willing to compromise as long as my core values are respected

Question 6

6/12

How do you feel about enforcing consequences for boundary violations?

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I believe consequences are necessary to reinforce boundaries

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I struggle with enforcing consequences, I fear losing the relationship

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I don't believe in consequences, I prefer to forgive and forget

Question 7

7/12

When someone apologizes for crossing a boundary, how do you respond?

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I accept the apology and discuss how to prevent it from happening again

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I feel uncomfortable and change the subject

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I downplay it and reassure them it's okay

Question 8

8/12

What do you do when someone asks you to do something that goes against your boundaries?

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I politely decline and explain my boundaries

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I ghost them to avoid the situation altogether

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I reluctantly agree to avoid conflict

Question 9

9/12

How do you feel about setting boundaries with family members?

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I avoid setting boundaries with family, fearing the repercussions

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I believe boundaries are important even with family, and I enforce them

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I find it hard to set boundaries with family and often give in

Question 10

10/12

What's your reaction when someone tests your boundaries intentionally?

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I try to brush it off and not make a big deal out of it

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I avoid the person to prevent further boundary violations

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I stand my ground and make it clear that I won't tolerate it

Question 11

11/12

How do you feel about discussing boundaries openly with your partner?

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I find it uncomfortable and tend to avoid the topic

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I fear conflict and avoid discussing boundaries with my partner

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I believe communication is key and I'm comfortable discussing boundaries openly

Question 12

12/12

What's your reaction when someone disrespects your boundaries repeatedly?

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I make excuses for their behavior and continue to tolerate it

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I withdraw emotionally and physically to protect myself

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I reevaluate the relationship and consider setting stricter boundaries or ending it