The Jealousy and Insecurity Quiz

Find out which distinct personality trait defines you in relationships when it comes to jealousy and insecurity.

published on September 18
1/11

How do you react when your partner talks to someone of the opposite sex?

I trust them completely
I become angry and jealous
I feel anxious and insecure
I don't mind, everyone has friends
2/11

Do you often check your partner's phone or social media?

Yes, I need reassurance
Sometimes, just out of curiosity
No, I trust my partner completely
Never, it's important to respect privacy
3/11

How do you feel when your partner spends time with friends without you?

Jealous and left out
Happy for them, everyone needs their own space
Fine, I have my own plans too
Insecure and worried
4/11

What is your reaction when your partner mentions an ex?

What is your reaction when your partner mentions an ex?
I get jealous and defensive
It doesn't bother me, the past is the past
I listen with interest, it's part of their past
I feel threatened and insecure
5/11

How do you handle compliments your partner receives from others?

I'm proud of them, compliments are nice
I get possessive and protective
Compliments don't bother me, feels good to be appreciated
I feel inadequate and jealous
6/11

What is your immediate reaction after an argument with your partner?

I doubt the relationship and get insecure
I try to communicate and resolve the issue calmly
I become defensive and suspicious
I give them space and time to cool down
7/11

How do you feel when your partner talks about their attractive colleague?

How do you feel when your partner talks about their attractive colleague?
I become envious and start questioning
I feel threatened and compare myself
I trust them and appreciate their openness
It's natural to find others attractive, doesn't bother me
8/11

In a new relationship, how soon do you express your feelings of jealousy?

In a new relationship, how soon do you express your feelings of jealousy?
I let my jealousy show to protect myself
I express my insecurities early on
I avoid jealousy and focus on building trust first
I rarely feel jealous in new relationships
9/11

How do you respond when your partner is late without informing you?

I give them the benefit of the doubt, things happen
I get upset and accuse them of wrongdoing
I worry and think of worst-case scenarios
I trust that they had a genuine reason
10/11

What is your first thought when your partner receives a flirtatious message?

What is your first thought when your partner receives a flirtatious message?
I get angry and confront them immediately
I feel hurt and question their loyalty
I'm curious to know who it's from
It's just a message, not worth getting worked up over
11/11

Do you feel threatened by your partner's success and achievements?

I get envious and wish it was me instead
Their success motivates me to do better
No, I celebrate their accomplishments
Yes, it makes me insecure about myself