Love or Toxicity: How Healthy Is Your Relationship?

Find out if your relationship has signs of toxicity with this personality quiz.

published on June 19
1/12

How often do you and your partner communicate?

We argue frequently and struggle to understand each other
We have good communication but sometimes struggle to express our feelings
We communicate openly and regularly
We rarely communicate or avoid difficult topics
2/12

Do you feel supported and respected in your relationship?

Most of the time, but we sometimes misunderstand each other
Sometimes, but we often have power struggles
Yes, my partner is always there for me and respects me
No, I often feel belittled or ignored by my partner
3/12

How do you handle conflicts with your partner?

We often escalate conflicts and have trouble finding common ground
We avoid conflicts or sweep issues under the rug
We communicate openly and try to find a solution together
We try to resolve conflicts but struggle with effective communication
4/12

Are you able to be yourself around your partner?

Are you able to be yourself around your partner?
No, I feel like I have to hide parts of myself to keep the peace
Yes, I feel comfortable and accepted for who I am
Mostly, but we sometimes struggle to understand each other's perspectives
Sometimes, but I fear judgment or criticism from my partner
5/12

How does your partner respond to your needs and emotions?

My partner is empathetic and supportive of my needs and emotions
My partner tries to understand my needs and emotions but struggles at times
My partner often dismisses or minimizes my needs and emotions
My partner's response varies depending on the situation, causing confusion
6/12

How do you feel after spending time with your partner?

How do you feel after spending time with your partner?
I feel drained, anxious, or emotionally depleted after spending time with my partner
I feel a mix of emotions, sometimes positive, sometimes negative, after spending time together
I feel conflicted, frustrated, or emotionally exhausted after spending time together
I feel happy, fulfilled, and supported by my partner
7/12

How do you handle disagreements with your partner?

We often argue or escalate disagreements without resolution
We avoid disagreements or give in to keep the peace
We try to address disagreements but struggle with finding compromise
We discuss disagreements calmly and respectfully
8/12

What role does trust play in your relationship?

What role does trust play in your relationship?
We trust each other completely and have a strong sense of security
We trust each other but sometimes struggle with doubts or uncertainties
Trust is often questioned or broken, leading to conflicts and misunderstandings
There are trust issues or insecurities that cause tension in our relationship
9/12

How do you feel about sharing your goals and dreams with your partner?

How do you feel about sharing your goals and dreams with your partner?
I feel like my goals and dreams are dismissed or overshadowed by conflicts
I hesitate to share my goals or dreams out of fear of judgment or criticism
I share my goals and dreams but sometimes feel misunderstood or unsupported
I feel supported and encouraged to pursue my goals and dreams
10/12

How do you and your partner handle boundaries and personal space?

How do you and your partner handle boundaries and personal space?
We try to set boundaries but sometimes struggle to communicate them effectively
Boundaries are often crossed or ignored, leading to discomfort or resentment
We respect each other's boundaries and personal space without issue
We struggle to establish or respect boundaries, causing tension and conflicts
11/12

How do you define intimacy in your relationship?

Intimacy is lacking or strained due to emotional distance or other issues
Intimacy is often overshadowed by conflicts or power struggles in our relationship
Intimacy is important but sometimes challenging to maintain due to communication issues
Intimacy is emotional connection, trust, and physical closeness in our relationship
12/12

How do you and your partner handle decision-making and compromise?

How do you and your partner handle decision-making and compromise?
We struggle to make decisions or find compromises, often resulting in conflicts
Decision-making is one-sided, or compromises are rare, leading to resentment
We try to make decisions together but sometimes find it challenging to reach agreements
We make decisions together and compromise when needed, valuing each other's input